If you’re giving an erotic massage, you can’t do it half-assed. Then when he started massaging parts of my body that could release tension and increase arousal, he didn’t apply any pressure. I once had a man massage the sides of my belly, one of the few places where I have no muscles or tendons. When done poorly, an erotic massage can painful-literally and figuratively. Lots of people would be happy to get an erotic massage from their sexual partner-that is, if it’s done well. Erotic messages are similar to regular ones, except they're aimed at releasing tension and decreasing stress in the recipient by either enhancing or achieving sexual arousal. There are regular massages, which most folks find relaxing, and then there are erotic massages, which can be downright life-changing.
